“I put a spell on you, because you’re mine!” Jealousy, Envy and Possession
“Some songs reflect well the level of consciousness you are in. They are collective and therefore famous. When a song reflects your most inner beliefs perhaps it is time to take stock on what drives your unconscious behaviour.”
Some songs reflect well the level of consciousness you are in. They are collective and therefore famous. When a song reflects your most inner beliefs perhaps it is time to take stock on what drives your unconscious behaviour.
When it comes to jealousy, envy and possession, the three go hand in hand. A spell is all it takes, a thought, a wish, a desire. All in the name of Love. Conditional Love. Yes, that one that drives the world, the one that makes everything OK in telenovelas (soap operas), series, documentaries, films and TV programmes.
Some cultures thrive on jealousy, some people even say that a romantic relationship without jealousy is not a relationship. Jealous behaviour is validated as a form of care. What is left out in this kind of emotional analysis is that jealousy also comes together with envy and possession as they are all part of the same package.
Experiencing jealousy, envy and possession is part of your human experience on Earth, it is how you deal with it that matters the most. When you take full response-ability for your own feelings and what generates and causes you to have them, then we can have a healthy experience of the feeling. It can be quite fun sometimes if your emotions are regulated and you are an emotionally balanced human being. When you are wounded; jealousy, envy and possession come from a space of lack, and your emotions are all over the place, most of the time even unconsciously known to you, that is when the real challenge starts.
“Experiencing jealousy, envy and possession is part of your human experience on Earth, it is how you deal with it that matters the most”
It can be quite fun sometimes if your emotions are regulated and you are an emotionally balanced human being. When you are wounded; jealousy, envy and possession come from a space of lack, and your emotions are all over the place, most of the time even unconsciously known to you, that is when the real challenge starts.
One of the first signs that you might experience here is comparison. If you find yourself comparing yourself to others, comparing what you do in regards to another, comparing what you have in relation to what you see outside yourself, maybe it is time to stop and go within to see if this comes from a place of lack. It is that energy of not having, not being good enough and not producing enough, that causes the law of attraction to manifest in your life what you don’t want instead of what you want.
In a healthy relationship; being a romantic one or not, a friendship or not, a blood relation or not, emotions are balanced and people will support each other in what they are, and what they have or do. The wounded individual is the one who will feel discombobulated, lost and all over the place. When emotions are dysregulated, the tendency is to: lash out, blame, criticise, expect, resent- which creates uncomfortable and even aggressive situations as such. The art of assumption and victimisation is quite high in situations like these, and these can lead to arguments, misunderstandings, conflicts and even ruptures.
“When emotions are dysregulated, the tendency is to: lash out, blame, criticise, expect, resent- which creates uncomfortable and even aggressive situations as such.”
The wounded individual will seek an outlet to his/her negative emotions, as to keep it inside the self is too painful. If your focus is blame, shame or feeling like the victim- this is even worse as by not taking response-ability for your behaviour this means your negative energy is now directed at another. These negative energies act like poison to the other, they hit the energy field of the person, and if they are not aware or prepared for such energetic force, it can cause invisible harm to the mental, emotional, spiritual or physical body.
These kinds of negative energetic forces can be perceived as psychic attacks. Their target is outside yourself. Mostly done unconsciously yet very powerful, if the original source is unaware that they are doing it.
In this day and age it is very important to keep an eye on your thoughts, feelings, wishes and desires. They are travelling fast energetically and the collective is all too sensitive right now not to feel it deeply. There are shadow behaviours everywhere, and even your thoughts are now externally controlled if you are not awakened enough to see, feel or acknowledge this.
“These kinds of negative energetic forces can be perceived as psychic attacks. Their target is outside yourself. Mostly done unconsciously yet very powerful, if the original source is unaware that they are doing it.”
A powerful exercise that you can do every morning when you wake up, and evening before going to bed, is to take 5 minutes on each occasion to prepare or analyse your day, and see if you can remember the major events of the day, and the thoughts behind them, before, during and after. The more you do this the more you will open up to the messages that come with it.
Changing your thoughts with full awareness is so powerful that you will see your life transforming for the better before your eyes. You become the master in manifesting what you want quickly, effectively and independently, without having to blame, shame or involve another. No saga, no drama, just you and Source co-creating a beautiful time on Earth.
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In the meantime keep a check on your thoughts as they are creating your reality and if you find yourself in jealousy, envy of possessive mode, remember that the object of your attention is receiving all this energy. If your motivation is Love, understand over stand, side stand that no matter how good your intentions are, it hits them in a negative way and depending on how healthy or wounded they are in life, it will created animosity between you unconsciously, and resentment festers in your relationship until all is up in the air and cleared from original point of creation.
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Bye for Now,
Liliana
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